We’ve been trained to distrust our own wanting.
To shrink it down, justify it, intellectualize it — as if desire is something dangerous that needs to be managed. But here’s the secret no one tells you: desire is divine. It’s the soul speaking in the language of the body.
Every “I want more” is a homing signal from your higher self.
It’s not greed. It’s guidance.
The problem is, most of us don’t know how to listen without guilt. We think wanting is wrong because we’ve confused craving with calling. Craving comes from lack. Calling comes from remembrance.
Desire isn’t a symptom of not having enough.
It’s the compass pointing you toward who you really are.
When your nervous system is dysregulated, desire feels chaotic — like chasing validation, like hunger with no end. But when your body is safe and your energy is coherent, desire becomes clean. Magnetic. It stops screaming and starts humming. It doesn’t demand; it invites.
That’s when you realize the feminine doesn’t manifest through control.
She magnetizes through coherence. She doesn’t force timelines into alignment — she becomes the frequency that everything else can’t help but orbit.
The feminine doesn’t chase.
She becomes irresistible to what’s meant for her.
Desire is the map to that state. It’s the pull toward expansion. The ache that says, there’s more available than this. The whisper that says, you came here for deeper love, richer aliveness, truer alignment.
But here’s the paradox: to follow desire, you have to stop performing for it.
You can’t manifest what you secretly feel unworthy of receiving.
You can’t call in what you still believe would make you “too much.”
The universe won’t hand you the thing you’re still apologizing for wanting.
So here’s your spiritual homework — not to manifest harder, but to unshame your desire.
To stop editing your authenticity so it fits inside someone else’s comfort zone.
To stop performing “spiritual good girl” energy — the kind that pretends surrender is passivity and pleasure is distraction.
Because your body knows before your mind does.
That spark you feel when something lights you up? That’s divine data.
The goosebumps? Guidance.
The craving to pivot, to create, to love more deeply? That’s your future self tugging you forward.
Desire is not the problem.
Self-betrayal is.
When you stop fighting your wanting, you realize it’s never been about the outcome — it’s about the becoming. Every desire initiates you. It asks you to expand your capacity to receive, to soften into pleasure, to believe in the version of you that already has it.
And that’s the alchemy: desire dissolves lack when you stop chasing it and start embodying it.
So the next time you feel that pull, don’t suppress it — sanctify it.
Light a candle. Breathe into the space behind your ribs.
Whisper, “show me where this desire wants to take me.”
And then, follow the heat.
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